Rich Huff’s speech at Rich’s NY Memorial Service,
September 30, 2001
I would like to thank Karen and both families for giving me
the privilege of
sharing some of my thoughts.
Rch and I met at Yale as teammates on the football team and as
members of
Berkeley College, but I am not exactly sure how or when our
friendship
developed. Like many of his relationships it formed
naturally, owing to his
easy going, unassuming nature. He stood by me in some of
my darker moments
and taught me more than I learned in the classroom.
Some of you may have read about Rch in a recent Yale daily
News article
which catalogued some of the many things Rch did during his
years at Yale -
student of International relations, studied the Russian
language, played
varsity football, formed a popular band, published a comic
strip,
revitalized a snack bar in the Berkeley basement, and somehow
convinced me
that taking statistics in my final semester would be
fun. An impressive
list but certainly not exhaustive.
Rch managed to do all of these things as the rest of us
scrambled to figure
out just how to make it through midterms.
It is easy to be impressed by this list and you will walk away
with an
appreciation for him, but one would not know the full measure
of the man.
It is my sincere belief that Rch did all of these things not
for the
accolades that surely followed. I'm sure that he took
some pleasure in
that, but his true joy seemed to come from the experience
itself and the
opportunity to share life's beauty with others - music for
others to dance
to, a gathering place for fellow students to hide from the
damp of New Haven
or their studies...
As was the case at Yale, I will turn to him now to lend me a
hand. A friend
recirculated a note Rch had penned after his father's
passing. I would like
to share a portioon of that message with you all because
believe that he
provides the best insight into how he approached life.
and has consciousness, and free will; just the idea of life is
incredible. I
never forgot that - I always tell people that a wasted day is
a crime
against nature, because you never getthat day back. You
can always have
more accomplishments, or more money, or more notoriety, or
whatever - but
you can never get more time. You get what you get.
And I'm glad that my
dad had his time, and that I got to share that with him."
I am truly grateful that Rch had his time and am honored that
I have been
able to share it with him.